Howdy D7680 Rotary Family!

Welcome to August, a month filled with summer nights, cricket melodies, back-to-school events, and a Rotary focus on Membership Growth and Extension. Membership, the bedrock of our organization, is all about people and relationships. RI President Gordon McInally encourages us to create a culture of care among our members and a club experience that is fulfilling. I believe when our Rotary experience is refreshing and fulfilling, we will more likely share our stories, invite others to join us, attract more members, and grow. The million-dollar question is HOW do we do this? Let’s start with the basics and engage our happy chemicals. Setting goals and working hard to accomplish them, socializing with friends, recognition among peers, expressing gratitude and laughter are all examples of actions that increase levels of dopamine, serotonin, and endorphins. Strengthening trust and bonding in relationships is related to oxytocin.

Dr. Mark Perko, a professor at UNC-Greensboro taps into the power of oxytocin with the concept of “500 fist bumps.” A fist bump is a widely accepted physical gesture in our culture that can be a powerful way to connect and show support, signifying a sense of togetherness, symbolizing that members are there for each other, ready to lend a helping hand, offer comfort, and celebrate successes. Fist bumps illustrate encouragement, appreciation, celebration, and solidarity. Perko’s 500 Fist Bumps – a public health effort delivered through youth and recreational sports organizations uses fist bumps as a connection point for building care, trust, and a supportive environment for kids in recreational sports.

The vision of 500 Fist Bumps Communities intrigues me as it aligns with our efforts of creating cultures of care and comfort in our Rotary clubs. I challenge all clubs to consider more high fives, shout-outs, and fist bumps and read more about Perko’s public health initiative here, https://www.uncg.edu/campus-weekly/uncg-professor-creates-initiative-first-bumps.

Cheers and Grow Rotary!

Debb

Rotary cares. Please donate if you can.

WHAT’S IN IT FOR THEM?

We’ve all heard Rotary leaders talk about membership growth, but no one joins to help with that. They join for “what’s in it for them” – The Four Powerful Benefits of Rotary: Relationships, Service, Growth, and Learning.

When you talk to non-Rotarians, keep these four top of mind, tell them what you are proud of in Rotary, and invite them to a meeting or event.

Relationships

  1. Quality – Rotary offers friendships with people who recite the Four Way Test each week.
  2. Fun – Most clubs have what I call “fun partners in crime” doing service projects, club leadership, social activities, and fund-raising work together.
  3. Connections – We are connectors! People need this far more since COVID.

Service

  1. People can find their passion in Rotary, or they can bring theirs to Rotary.
  2. They can serve locally or internationally, in most any way imaginable.
  3. They get Rotary’s incredible reputation and logistical & financial support.

Growth

  1. Immediate Past RI President Jennifer Jones has said “we are leaders by mindset as much as position”, making Rotary perfect for people of all ages.
  2. People can improve leadership, organizational, and speaking skills. This is ideal for younger members. If less than perfect, they still have their day job!
  3. Rotary could offer more leadership, service & growth opportunities than a job or business.

Learning

Through exposure to a wide variety of community leaders and organizations, and obviously Rotarians, some of whom are outside their club.

 Finally, personalize it by sharing what you are most proud of in your club, your Rotary service, or Rotary itself.

Now, invite someone to your next meeting or event by remembering the answer to “what’s in it for them?” – Relationships, Service, Growth and Learning, and what you’re proud of.

Mike Walker, 

District Membership Chair

Register TODAY on DACdb for the Membership Summit.

Register on DacDb for the Foundation Banquet.

 

New this Rotary Year, Zone 33 has initiated the Public Image Club Citation (shared by Zone 34, which has had the Club Citations for several years). The Public Image Club Citation is a roadmap for the Rotary year and will be awarded at the end of the Rotary year.

Each month, there will be task and action items that need to be completed by the Club Public Image Team.

Public Image is an essential part of every Rotary Club and every Rotary District. Without Public Image, we can’t be a thriving organization.

To find out more about the Public Image Citation and the Public Image resources, please watch the following video.

Watch Zone 33/34 Public Image Bootcamp.

Some takeaways from this video are:

  1. Create a Public Image Team consisting of Public Relations (traditional media outlets), Photography and Video, Website and Technology, Social Media, and Newsletter.
  2. Conduct a Club Audit. Check websites, passwords, club information, logo usage, branding.
    1. Zones 33/34 has a plethora of public image resources. Check out their website (see below) and peruse their past webinars, review their Toolkit, etc.
    2. Guidelines for branding and logos. Check out the Brand Center (see below).
  3. Create a Content Calendar.
    1. Where to find content.
      1. Facebook Rotary Club Members: Public Image, Graphics & Ideas Hub
    2. Other Zone 33/34 Webinars.

Helpful links:

 

District 7680 is sponsoring an RLI event in West Jefferson, NC on September 30. Lorena Prince, RLI District Chair is working with Ashe County Clubs and planning a “Fall Get-Away Weekend” to include RLI on Saturday with a service project to be conducted concurrently in which spouses, partners, friends and other Rotarians can participate. There will also be a social the night before. More details when you register.

RLI Part 1, 2, & 3

Wilkes Community College

Ashe County Campus

363 Campus Drive

West Jefferson, NC 28694

Registration is open on DACdb or by using the direct link below:

https://Registrations.DACdb.com/Register/index.cfm?EventID=77690411&NoCaptcha

Please let me know if you have any questions or need any additional information.  THANK YOU!!!!!  -Lorena

Congratulations to our newest Club Presidents throughout the District 7680 area! Thank you for leading our clubs as we Create Hope in the World!

Rotary District 7680 conducted an intensive leadership and personal development seminar for sixtyish teenagers from around the district called the Seminar for Tomorrow’s Leaders (SFTL) from July 13-16 at Gardner-Webb University in Boiling Springs. Developed by the Center for Creative Leadership and optioned by the District, the curriculum demonstrates how to offer and accept feedback, explore social identity and how it impacts perspective and bias, explains mental models, contrasts fixed and growth mindsets, explores ethical decision-making, ponders values and emotional intelligence, and discusses elements of personal resiliency. Kids come in with varying degrees of willingness and leave with visibly increased swagger and confidence. For the veteran facilitators and mentors, it’s universally their favorite thing in the Rotary year.

But why? The days are long. It can be emotionally draining shepherding kids through a crash course in self-awareness. It can be physically tiring because it’s hot, we all sleep in college dorms on typical dorm mattresses, and the food isn’t what you’d enjoy in your own kitchen. There can be drama because there are dozens of teenagers from the far reaches of the district who are tossed together in a salad bowl of intensive experiences.

Who volunteers for this?

It turns out that a lot of us do – over, and over, and over again.

I (Rotary Club of Waxhaw-Weddington) do it because this age group is on the cusp of adulthood, and they’re in the throes of the most difficult part of their journey. Watching them is like living in a discotheque…lightbulbs flashing everywhere. They are awkward and uncomfortable on their first day, and by the end of the weekend they are tightly bonded with the most unlikely people imagined, and they keep in touch using the modern media du jour. It is enthralling to witness, humbling to enable, and invigorating to achieve. It’s worth the drain, the tiredness, the food, and the drama.

Our District Governor, Debb Corbett, started volunteering with SFTL in 2010 and has returned every year since including making it a priority this July during her year as governor. Debb says SFTL is fuel for her soul as she gets to dig into leadership learning and witness the transformation of young leaders with the enthusiasm to take their leadership forward and make a difference in their schools, communities, and lives.

Three of our volunteers are SFTL alumni. Dominique Isles, who is looking for a club to call “home”, was a participant in 2014. She is the “Swiss Army Knife” of the program, and nothing would happen as smoothly as it does without her management and preparation. “SFTL gives me an opportunity to be part of something bigger than myself…. I learned that it’s not always what you say but sometimes how you articulate yourself. I learned skills that I’m able to apply as an adult. SFTL is a place where I’m able to fit in and apply my leadership skills. I show up hoping to inspire tomorrow’s leaders and leave inspired by each of them. Come expecting the unexpected (in an amazing way)!”

Rylie LaRue is another alumnus who will continue her leadership journey with the Peace Corps this fall. There’s something special when students return to mentor; it’s a validation of the intent of a program and an attestation to the efforts of the Rotarians who bring the curriculum to life. “As a former student, I knew how positive and powerful the experiences were for me. I wanted to be a mentor to a group of future leaders and make an impact on their lives and even continue to grow as a leader. SFTL is such a wonderful program and provides young students the opportunity to cultivate their leadership and interpersonal skills while arming them with the information and power to be better leaders.

Steve Buteau (Rotary Club of Alleghany) just wrapped up his third year as a mentor. An experienced leader himself, he likes mentoring teenagers about how to be their own brand of leader. The interaction and camaraderie he enjoyed during his first year encouraged him to return for his second year, and he returned for the third year because “as I reflected on all the experiences of my life, this program is really top shelf and I wanted to contribute what I could and continue to learn from the kids, mentors, and facilitators.” SFTL isn’t a one-way delivery system. Every veteran mentor and facilitator will tell you that they learn just as much – if not more – from the kids as the kids learn from them.

Brent Goddard (Top of the Lake Rotary Club) completed his first experience as an SFTL mentor and decided to volunteer because “I’ve been a student of leadership for over 40 years and everything about it motivates me…and I’ll keep coming back because of how good the program is. The growth of the students over the program is amazing.” Brent found that sharing personal stories was an effective way to connect the kids with real applications of the concepts they learned.

“Leadership is an underrated skill”, says Ben Tewolde (Rotary Club of Waxhaw-Weddington), “and there is no textbook for it, nor is it taught at schools. Leadership is a way of life that requires continuous education. SFTL makes this incredible skill set available at an early stage in life for our youth who are tomorrow’s leaders. They get their first lesson in leadership, and it is a joy to see them connect, communicate, and create lasting friendships and connections.”

Clearly, the facilitators and mentors have a tremendous passion for sharing their own particular brands of leadership and mentorship not only with the students but also with each other. We each want to be valued and add value to any organization to which we give our time, talent, and treasure, and joining this group of outstanding individuals who have achieved so much success in their own professional lives is motivating and inspiring.

Why do we keep coming back, and how do we manage to attract new mentors each year? Because it makes all of us better humans, better Rotarians, and better stewards of our communal future. And that is a worthwhile endeavor to which to give a long summer weekend.

Article submitted by Cristina Capello, President, Waxhaw-Weddington Rotary

The life of a Rotary Youth Exchange student

 

Smera Chandan, left, celebrating the new year with her host family.

Editor’s note: Smera is the daughter of IPDG Kam Chandan and his wife, Divya.

By Smera Chandan

My name is Smera Chandan and I am 16 years old. I am sitting in English class. I am in a class to learn English, yet I am fluent in English. So why would I be in an English class?

I am a Rotary Youth Exchange student from the United States and I am living in Catalonia, Spain. I began this journey in September 2022, and I have been living among the people, culture, and customs of this beautiful place for five months. What an incredible time it has been.

I started my exchange on 14 September from Charlotte, North Carolina. I remember it like it was yesterday: standing at the airport gate, my face tear-stained from saying goodbye to my loved ones, wearing my Rotary Youth Exchange student blazer. The excitement was indescribable. Yes, I was leaving everything I knew behind, but I was leaving with the same body, heart, and mind to guide me.

Being an exchange student was always a faraway idea for me. But one day, I found myself filling out an application at the age of 15. My family and I had hosted four exchange students at our home previously. It makes me so happy to say that they will all – truly – always be family to me. I had seen what it was like to be a host sister. But what would it be like to be the “American sister” to two little Catalan boys? That, I couldn’t imagine. I’ve never had a brother before!

After a month and a half, life started to settle down. I felt so incredibly welcomed by my host family. As I got more comfortable with them, a sense of peace set in. I started school, where lessons were taught in Catalan, and dedicated a lot of time to learning the language. I had to get my Spanish skills down as well!

As an exchange student, I was inspired to do some type of service. I began dedicating my hours after school to help with English classes at the local primary school. This in turn also helped me learn a good bit of Catalan! I started teaching English classes after school to raise money for polio eradication efforts. It made me feel good to represent The Rotary Foundation and pay forward the opportunities I had been given.

After three months, I became fluent in Spanish, and now I am conversational in Catalan – a language that I had never heard of before. I started to make more friends as I gained the ability to talk about my passions and interests.

Being an exchange student means more than packing your bags for a “vacation.” It’s a time for learning, trusting, and accepting change in more than just your physical surroundings. And there is so much more to come.

Post script: 3 August

It has now been a month and a half since I came back home to the United States. Reflecting back on my exchange always brings me happiness. The lessons I learned enabled me to see the world with new eyes and appreciate its bountiful possibilities. I learned how much beauty is in the world, including the beauty of simplicity and of conversations.

I now have not just one new language under my belt, but two. I now have another incredible family whom I will remember forever. I stay connected to my English students and will be teaching some online lessons starting this school year. I still call my friends back in Spain to share life updates. One of my friends from Germany even came to visit me and stayed for two weeks. As a senior at Pine Lake Preparatory, I’m looking forward to college, where I hope to study communications, media, and acting.

The lessons I learned will be with me forever. I want to share my experiences and stories with others to inspire more people to travel with purpose and curiosity. Thank you, Rotary, for an unforgettable experience.


International Youth Day was 12 August, established by the United Nations in 1999 to spotlight youth issues and celebrate young leaders as essential partners in addressing the world’s challenges. Learn more about Rotary youth programs.

LET’S ABOLISH WAR  –  Sign up for ENDING WAR 101

Rotary Action Group For Peace has partnered with World Beyond War to provide aN educational program for Rotarians to understand why it is possible to abolish war as a means of settling differences within and between nations.

Conflict Prevention & Resolution was designated as Rotary’s very first area of focus in 1921 and we Rotarians have a long history of peace-making and peace-building through our programs, projects and peace fellowships.  Yet, wars continue to devastate societies and create untold suffering  with weapons of increasingly greater capacity to maim and kill.  Why is it that we grieve the passing of a person we know or love but turn a blind eye to mass murder?  Did you know that only 1.5% of global military spending could end starvation on Earth?

The partnership with World Beyond War takes us to a new level of awareness about the carnage and suffering caused by wars and the ingrained social, cultural, political and economic norms which have desensitized so many of us and made us believe that wars are necessary and can never be abolished.

If you want to join the movement of Rotarians and others around the world who believe war is wrong and of grave danger to the whole of humanity, then start by enrolling in Ending War 101.

275 Rotarians registered for this course when it was first offered in June and feedback was overwhelmingly positive.  So, it is now being offered again from September 4th to 18th.  It is engaging, hard-hitting, and conversational.  It’s only 6 hours.  And it just might change your mind as to what’s possible.  Take it online at your own speed and your own schedule.

Register through World Beyond War either directly at https://worldbeyondwar.org/endingwar101/ or through the QR code below.  Hope to see you there.

A NEW survey is available for all members to SHARE their voices! I DARE you to take a couple of minutes to CARE and SHARE. Your ideas and opinions are important and help shape the future of our district. Thank you for completing the survey; click here: 

Join the Art Competition Committee and help spread the word throughout our district about this new opportunity! To help with the committee, contact Jennifer Bell, ritzell987@gmail.com 

September 23: Regional Membership Summit. Look for upcoming details for times and places across the district convenient to your proximity. You will get to choose where you want to attend training on September 23. We CARE about your time! More time for training, learning, and connecting; less time commuting!

October 7: District Community Service and Social

November 18: District 7680 Foundation Banquet

December 9: District Social: Go Rotary! at the theater. The inaugural holiday production of Need a Little Christmas in Charlotte. Rotary group tickets are available for matinee and night performances. NeedALittleChristmas.com

January: Mid-Year Assembly

February 23-24: Go Rotary! Weekend of service. Plan a local project or activity and share the Rotary experience. Go Rotary!

April 19-21: Go Rotary! District Conference, Francis Marion Hotel, Charleston, SC.

 

Hashtags allow your stories ease of visibility by others. Please use the following hashtags across all social media channels:

#gorotary7680 so the district team can readily access your social media stories and repost them on the district channels

#createhopeintheworld– so the world can get a glimpse of what we are doing in Rotary District 7680

#leadwithheart (or any other GENERAL hashtag that would appeal to future Rotary members)- so like-minded people can learn about the GOOD our Rotary clubs are doing in the community and around the world

Submit Articles

To submit articles to the District Newsletter, please send to Jenny Kendrick at jakendrick@outlook.com by the last Thursday of the month.